There are decisions one makes that one does not take lightly. Decisions that are life altering for the Self or another Self. How to make those decisions. It must be your decision not colored by someone else’s opinion (although you may have gotten someone else’s opinion). What does your Higher judgement tell you?
You know the saying: “Hind sight knows best.” Maybe there is a hidden message in that? I have unconsciously employed that a time or two:
I picture myself as an old lady in her rocker on the front porch reflection on my Now decision. Not that I then see a video of the outcomes, but I come away with a knowing that a certain path, a certain course of action is the thing to do so the future Self will not have any regrets or thoughts about what would’ve been if only . . . . . . . .
I have a regret or two as I get closer to that old lady in time and space. But mostly, regrets over things I didn’t have a choice in, or things that I did, didn’t do, say, didn’t say without the reflection of their importance.
It still serves me to go into the future and think back about my various solutions to the present time decision, situation, dilemma, etc. The old girl serves me well, but it seems she is more reflective than impulsive of late. Guess because we are merging?